Why I Wrote “Forget About Today: Bob Dylan’s Genius for (Re)invention, Shunning the Naysayers and Creating a Personal Revolution”

Bob Dylan, a self-help guru?

You bet.

Since Dylan burst upon the music scene in 1961, critics, pundits and fans alike have celebrated his remarkable skills as a songwriter, poet, vocalist and performer of folk and rock and roll music. While I agree with this assessment, I also believe, nonetheless, that it doesn’t quite do this man justice. He represents so much more to me than his work as an entertainer or his life as a musician and writer.

That’s why I wanted to write this book. I think Dylan can teach people life lessons based on his mysterious genius. He stands for longevity, the quality that we all hope to achieve in our careers. Can you think of anybody in your field who has thrived for fifty-plus years?

Longevity is so crucial to our well being, isn’t it? We all want others — not to mention ourselves — to perceive us as being hip, vital, RELEVANT, despite changes in the office, in the industry, and in the world around us.

We all need to feel that we still belong, despite our records of accomplishments or our long tenures. As we look around, we can reflect on people who at one time may have had more talent or promise than any of us. But life simply derailed them along the way and they receded or vanished from the scene.

I look at Dylan’s list of achievements and I am so impressed by his tenacity. He embodies the lesson of “keep on keepin’ on,” to quote from one of his best and most poignant songs, “Tangled Up in Blue,” the kick-off track on 1975′s gem, “Blood on the Tracks.” The man doesn’t quit working, trying, pushing to make his life interesting and approach self-fulfillment in any number of ways. It’s a rare example of someone who never rests on his laurels. In fact, Bob Dylan seldom acknowledges the dazzle of his own back pages. He is always looking ahead. It’s a useful lesson to all of us.

What’s most impressive of all about Dylan’s legacy is that he has accomplished everything on his own terms. If anything, Dylan’s closely held principles probably held him back at various times, such as when this twenty-one-year-old walked off “The Ed Sullivan Show,” the most popular television program of the day, because the producers wouldn’t let him sing the song he had chosen for his big night. Dylan could have benefited enormously from the supersonic push from an appearance on the Sullivan show. But he refused to compromise.

Throughout his five-decade career, he has demonstrated time and again that he will do what he wants and commercial incentives won’t sway him off course. It’s not always easy to stick to your beliefs when the promise of something great exists. I don’t know how many of us would also refuse to make compromises like Dylan did.

No, we can’t learn from Dylan how to write an anthem like “Blowin’ in the Wind” or sing a classic such as “Like a Rolling Stone.” My purpose is to go beyond the songs and try to understand how Dylan has been able to remain in our consciousness for all of these years.

How much has Dylan been in our lives? Remember, he arrived in Greenwich Village from his native Midwest the same week that John F. Kennedy was sworn in as the nation’s thirty-fifth president.

I view Dylan through yet another prism than music. I consider his lifetime of success and hold him up as a role model. Indeed, Dylan inspires people. We have seen presidents, corporate titans, movie stars, athletes and philanthropists embraced as self-help icons because they supply wisdom and give hope to their supporters. They have a great deal to offer.

I put Dylan in the company of these other high achievers because we can all learn so much from studying his example of success.

Think about it. Not many people in any field can match his longevity. His ability to endure in the entertainment industry, in particular, for five decades astounds me. Dylan has thrived in the most public of professions. He has not been perfect, God knows. He has made some foolish moves and sometimes he didn’t respond automatically to the changes swirling around him. And by insisting on doing things his way all the time, he has appeared to the public to be stubborn and aloof. But after every disappointment and apparent defeat, Dylan has managed to pull himself up off the canvass.

I can respect his grit and tenacity as much as his proclivity for writing and singing “Blowin’ in the Wind,” “The Times They Are a-Changin,” “Mr. Tambourine Man,” Like a Rolling Stone,” “Tangled Up in Blue,” “Hurricane,” “Every Grain of Sand,” “Jokerman,” “Not Dark Yet,” “Things Have Changed,” “Mississippi,” Working Man’s Blues #2” and so many other gems from his back pages.

I don’t intend to write strictly about Dylan’s musical triumphs. Studying his life, I see him in a bigger picture. And that is what drove me to want to write this book. Yes, Dylan possesses special talents. But his natural ability alone is not what has enabled him to remain so relevant and vital for such a long period of time.

What has kept him in the game is his perseverance, his work ethic, and his passion for doing the work, his competitiveness and his ability to convert defeats into victories. These are also the hallmarks of any successful individual in sports or business or politics or the arts. In other words, Dylan can serve somebody as a role model. You don’t have to be a musical peer of his – though he has very few of those, anyway – to see his value and learn from his example.

And we can learn these lessons by studying Dylan’s career and life arc. It has not been — God knows — a steady, relentless series of utter victories. Anything but. The man has made numerous comebacks, lifting himself off the ground after any number of failures or disappointments when albums didn’t sell well or receive gushing praise in Rolling Stone or the daily newspapers or when concertgoers emerged from one of his shows and shook their heads in confusion. Was that Bob Dylan, the Bob Dylan? I couldn’t understand what he was singing about? I couldn’t understand what he was saying, in the first place. And why didn’t he play “Hurricane!?”

I never worry about such matters. Dylan, to me, is a constantly evolving artist, not a mere singer or guitarist. He presents a piece to the puzzle with every new album or gig. It is an ongoing journey. He is going on it and he wants to invite us all to join him. That’s the fun of it. Yes, Bruce Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Bono, Mick Jagger and others will deliver solid entertainment for two hours at every performance — and we love and revere them for their durability, talent and sheer consistency. But Dylan goes for something else entirely. He wants to be enigmatic. He is teaching us, too, that what matters is being taken seriously, on your own terms.

Bob Dylan has meant a lot to me over the years. As a fan, I appreciate his versatility and marvel at his longevity and his vision as a folkie, a pop star, a country crooner, a gospel singer and a bluesman.

As a journalist who tries to make sense out of the world, I can also recognize a person who has an extraordinary commitment to what he is doing. Dylan is a millionaire many times over but he isn’t all about making money. He is that rarity who lives his life on his own terms. For my two cents, that kind of success alone is as admirable as any of his musical accomplishments.

Dylan has long demonstrated resilience. He has found the strength of purpose to mount comebacks and prove to skeptics that he can bend with the changing times. He proved his mettle after falling into a steep decline throughout the 1980s. By his own admission in “Chronicles, Volume One, his engrossing, well received 2004 memoir, Dylan had lost his muse. Further, he seemed to be out of step with the video-crazed music industry and the “Morning in America”-oriented country.

But tellingly, he set out to show the public that he still belonged. His strategy of touring constantly around the world beginning in 1988, for example, worked brilliantly. His decision to launch what the media came to call “The Never Ending Tour” demonstrated Dylan’s business acumen, as he tapped a new and fertile market for himself. New fans discovered him and reveled anew in the same qualities that a previous generation of fans had appreciated.

The idea for this book grew out of a pretty good source: Dylan himself. In his highly entertaining 2004 memoir, “Chronicles, Volume One,” Dylan wrote extensively about what critics and fans have written off as his fallow period, the 1980s. Dylan himself doesn’t shy away from the outside criticism and actually proves to be his own harshest critic in the book.

To see Dylan today, it’s hard to imagine that he went through a decade-long slump. He is riding high now. His albums sell well. He has the clout and the chops to play about one hundred shows a year around the world. He is beloved by a generation of fans that wasn’t even born yet when in the mid-Seventies, he was polishing off “Blood on the Tracks,” often hailed as his best album.

Dylan explained in “Chronicles” that he set out on a deliberate and thoughtful course of action to regain his relevance in our lives. This idea intrigued me – that this brilliant musician – had the wherewithal to craft on such an ambitious and ultimately successful strategy for his comeback.

I listen to Dylan’s music all the time on my iPhone. As with The Beatles’ best stuff, I marvel at how much I am picking up, even after I’ve listened to the same tune for the hundredth time. I can shake my head in wonderment at the wild, driving harmonica solo in “Absolutely Sweet Marie” or the soulful singing of a very wise man in “Workingman’s Blues # 2.” I can smile at the silly knock-knock joke in “Po’ Boy” or the fury of the narrator in “Masters of War.”

Bob Dylan has few peers when it comes to evoking a mood. He can make an audience listen to him in a respectful silence as he tells the story of Hattie Carroll or Willie McTell or Hollis Brown. or he can prompt people of all ages to jump out of their seats and dance to “Maggie’s Farm” or “Tombstone Blues” or “Jolene” or “All Along the Watchtower.”

A few words about the title of this book: “Forget About Today” is a phrase from Dylan’s gem, “Mr. Tambourine Man” (which, coincidentally or not, is also my favorite Dylan song of all). It represents a concept that he has lived and it stands as the cornerstone of his longevity.

He has proven the value of forging ahead and not letting success or failure overwhelm him. You will read in the ensuing chapters how Dylan has done this.

It’s my hope that you will embrace the kinds of life lessons that Dylan has carried out for himself. It’s tricky writing about such a powerful presence – and one who is still going strong. Oh sure, critics carp that Dylan’s voice is too raspy and rough these days. Some suggest that maybe he should leave the road.

If he took the time to read this stuff, he’d probably shake his head. Maybe he’d laugh at the irony that the naysayers are saying today what people wrote fifty years ago: Bob Dylan can’t sing. Dylan is getting the last laugh on all of his detractors because he continues to do what he wants. That lesson in itself is pretty powerful.

In case you were wondering, Dylan did not talk with me for this project. I was asked to submit a formal interview request by email and did so. Through his representative, he politely declined the invitation. I couldn’t feel too badly about the rejection. Dylan seldom grants interviews to authors and usually talks publicly when it serves his needs, upon the arrival of a new album. Most entertainment people have the same game plan.

Nor did I seek his approval to write this book. The opinions expressed on these pages are all mine. I don’t want to present to the world yet another Dylan biography. Likewise, my mission is not to reveal the identity of “Mr. Jones” or offer the millionth theory on the subject.

I hoped to write something more thoughtful and original. Dylan has inspired me, and my guess is that he has inspired you as well.

  • Elizabeth

    Thanks so much for writing this book. I’m a first grade teacher in a public school who points the children’s attention to Dylan as someone who models virtues that matter: tenacity, reinvention, perseverance, creativity, single-mindedness coupled with curiosity, tolerance for failed attempts and for being misunderstood, etc. Dylan is a living compendium of American music and he leads the listener back to source materials as well as forward to novelty. We observe his birthday each year after studying musicians, singers and songs of the type that inspired him throughout his youth: Gene Autry, Buddy Holly, Chuck Berry, Woody Guthrie and Aaron Copland, among others. We then learn to sing “Forever Young” and “Tambourine Man”. If nothing else, most of the kids get a sense that the best intellects are those who know they stand on “the shoulders of giants”. Dylan’s shoulders provide a worthy view.

    • jonfriedman

      Thank you, Elizabeth. I’m afraid your comment got cut iff. I hope you will enjoy reading the book.

      • admin

        Elizabeth, Jon – please do let me know if your comment did indeed got cut off and I’ll look into it (I’m the developer of Jon’s site).

  • http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=776034349 Sean Concannon

    Sounds great, Jon.

  • Tom

    You realize this has been done before, by academics and writers as talented as Greil Marcus. Granted you’re a Dylan fan but you miss the trickster aspect of his persona in favor of guru. I predict a poor reception by the illuminati and the public.

  • Tom

    Actually I can: Leonard Cohen who has aged far better than Bob who really peaked w Blonde on Blonde.

  • Rafael

    A self help guru? Really? A musical Tony Robbins? You can’t be serious. If you’re a die hard fan. I get that. If you’re putting this cat on a pedestal then you’ve got issues. He’d laugh at the thought himself.

    • jonfriedman

      Rafael, I think the point of what Dylan teaches us is to think for ourselves. If you think he’dl augh at this idea for a book, you’d be incorrect.

      • Rafael

        Albert Grossman was a close friend of My Dad’s. I think you’re the one who’s mistaken.

  • Tom

    Can I think of anyone who has influenced music more than Dylan? Yes:Miles Davis.

  • http://thedeletebin.com Rob Jones

    You know, of all the writings that I’ve consumed, interviews I’ve watched, and in listening to the music, I always had the impression that Dylan is as mystified as any of us as to the power of his own work. I think this is one of the reasons why he’s been so reticent to codify it; he’s not sure how it came about either, or how it’s meant to be applied, if at all, outside of itself. I think that’s what lies at the heart of his enigmatic nature. That, and bloody-mindedness at times.

    There are many songwriters who are tenacious, and who put out consistently great work on their own terms over the decades, yet worldwide success is elusive; Graham Parker, Ron Sexsmith, Bruce Cockburn, Richard Thompson. Why have these guys not thrived on the scale of Dylan? Is it all to do with them? Or are their other factors that remain beyond their control, like the eras out of which they emerged, or the professional connections that they’ve made, or not made?

    Good luck with your book. You’ve chosen a very difficult angle of exploration, which actually may serve it well in terms of setting it apart from other books about Dylan.

  • http://twitter.com/jamesebecker jamesebecker

    I am looking forward to reading this book! Any chance you are coming to read and sign in Phoenix? A lot of Dylan fans here!

  • Symphony Sid

    Sorry, but this is nonsense.. I will browse thru it at a bookstore but I’m not sure anyone will believe it, much less Dylan.

  • StellaW

    Nonsense may be too harsh Sid. Borrowed interest definitely. My guess is this will add little to the vast Dylan catalog out there. Sales may prove me wrong but I doubt it.

  • Wade King

    “Don’t follow leaders,” is from “Subterranean Homesick Blues,” not “Maggie’s Farm.”

  • Ernie C.

    Another side of Bob Dylan. I remember the debate, Stateman, 1977. Still a fan. Good luck with the book.

  • Matt

    Wow. If this “self help” idea is the basis for your book, its a reach. I’ll browse through it at the Strand..if they carry it (not guaranteed until its remaindered, which may happen fast)

    • jonfriedman

      I hope that it doesn’t happen too fast, Matt! But I’m sure you’ll let me know as soon as it does :) .

    • Alyssa

      The Strand doesn’t carry it. I rest my case

  • wayne

    Self help guru? Really? A Wayne Dyer of music? That’s a big stretch.

    • jonfriedman

      I don’t know anything about Wayne Dyer. Never read anything by him, either. My point is that lots of folks in these tough times are looking for role models, form whom they can learn life lessons and improve their own lots. I say Dylan is a perfect choice because he has had fifty years of mostly success and has had a knack for both re-invention and comebacks. If you choose to see Dylan in the same old way, as strictly a musical and cultural icon, that’s fine, too.

  • Davis

    Bob Dylan a self hep guru? No way. A musician, artist , singer, storyteller.A Wayne Dyer? Ludicrous.

    • jonfriedman

      I have never mentioned Wayne Dyer. You guys keep bringing him up. I don’t think you folks understand what I’m driving at. I’m saying we can look at Dylan’s success and learn from it — I’m not saying Dylan is actively preaching self-help advice to anyone.

  • Leo

    This is nonsense passing as substance. I actually saw people laughing at this book in NYC in a store.

    • jonfriedman

      Maybe they were actually laughing at you?

  • Adam

    The idea for this book? There isn’t one my friend. It’s warmed over business schtick but then your day job mr Friedman is working for the Murdoch empire. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

  • Eroll

    Well, less than a month and you can already buy your book for less than $8 online.
    The public is the best judge of what is worthwhile and what is not.

    • jonfriedman

      How much does it cost to buy your book?

  • Liverpoolrocks

    Just browsed thru yr book at a book seller. No offense, but it feels and reads. Like an 8 th grade term paper. Very repetitive and superficial. Apologies, buthat’s my opinio. Others are free to disagree.

  • Steve

    When I read articles in the WSJ titled 7 Ways Dylan can help you manage your career I take offense. His reputation is built on his record as a musician, his popularity is grounded in this. But is popularity even relevant? I’m not sure what your intent is? As a hardcore fan, why would you even ask this?

    • jonfriedman

      I’m trying to present a new way to appreciate Dylan’s legacy. If you don’t appreciate it, that’s OK. Thanks for writing in.

  • Camus

    Thiargues proposition iis baseless. It’s a projection on an artist who has spent decades deliberately being mysterious. To make him a self help guru is, frankly, absurd.

  • Wilson

    Just based on the Rolling Stone interview I think Dylan would be appalled to be cast as a guru of any sort, let alone one to model one’s career on. Your idolatry has gone too far, He may inspire me but not as a role model!!

  • Alex Foster

    Some advice Jon, take it or leave it. I sincerely believe you’re a hardcore, obsessed Dylan fan but this blog (I got here from Expecting Rain) feels pretty lame. In the increasingly interconnected digital age, this probably isn’t the best way to promote your book as it cheapens rather than enhances what you’re trying to do. I’d probably take it down before it actually starts to kill sales. Experience can be a harsh teacher but the best one anyone can have. I think the guru bit seems weak to me but it’s a free country.

  • rollinbob

    I might buy ya book you know, but Paul Mf’inCartney in the same breath, c’mon not in the same league. And cool is pretty uncool too. I do like your provocations tho. Doesn’t half wind some people up eh! Oh and if its not rude , how old are you– I probly should scout around your blog a bit bit more I spect its there but as I was chatting I thought I ‘d ask. Just to get a perspective on your views.Keep on kepin on yaself!

  • Lian

    LOL. I heard about this “blog”. You can’t be serious: Dylan as role model? Good Lord.

  • calexico

    Mate, I just can’t warm up to the central premise of your narrative: Dylan as a role model. He’d be the first one to blow you off. Can’t imagine his people would give you access to him on such a manufactured POV. And to then build a blog around it. You must be chagrined by now.

    • jonfriedman

      Not even close, mate. I can deal with the flak. If I learned anything from studying Dylan’s example, I recognized how little criticism really means if you are confident about your mission. As far as my detractors here go, please tell me, folks, where I can find YOUR books about Bob Dylan. I’d love to read them.

  • Tom T

    Poor book. Poor blog. Sorry Mr Friedman but that’s my take.

  • Patricio Córdova

    The title of the book is “Forget About Today”. After buying it I say, “Forget about the book!” It’s drivel. Friedman takes 227 pages to say the same thing over and over and over in different ways, i.e., Bob Dylan did it his own way. A huge waste of money. As boring a read as I can remember. Even after I got bored reading it, skimming was even boring. There’s nothing in the book worth talking about.
    Patricio

  • Richard

    Wow this blog is as amateurish as everyone said. Jon do yourself a favor:stop. This isn’t helping your case or rep within the Dylan community.

    • jonfriedman

      And what is your status within “the Dylan community,” Richard? Do you help set standards?